After Your Breathwork Session

Conscious connected breathwork invites your system to let go of what it has been holding, and to make room for something fresher to move in. Because of that, you might notice shifts in how you feel physically, emotionally or spiritually in the hours, and sometimes the days, that follow.

Whatever comes up for you is welcome, and it is part of the process of integration. There is no right way to feel afterwards. Here are some of the experiences people describe, so that if any of them show up for you, you know they belong here.

Some of the things people describe post session

If any of these show up for you, they belong here. If none of them do, that is fine too.

  • Tiredness. You may feel physically worn out, a little like the day after a good clear-out. This is especially common if a lot of energy moved during your session. Let yourself rest without earning it first.

  • A settled kind of calm. When your body lets go of tension it has been carrying in fight or flight, a deep relaxation can follow. If calm is unfamiliar to you, it can feel almost strange at first. You are allowed to simply be in it. Slow breaths and long, unhurried exhales can help you stay there.

  • Lightness. Many people notice a sense of feeling lighter in the body, the mind or the heart. That lightness is often the sign of something meaningful having shifted.

  • Peace, and a change of view. Breathwork can leave you feeling more at ease and seeing a situation from a new angle. As stress hormones settle, that low hum of anxiety often eases with them.

  • Tender or emotional. In a session we gently bring things to the surface that your body feels ready to release, and that releasing can carry on afterwards. You might find yourself more tearful or emotionally open in the days that follow. This is your system doing exactly what it set out to do. Be kind to yourself here. Give yourself quiet time to process, and reach out for support if you need it.

  • Shifts in physical pain. If you came in carrying pain somewhere in your body, you may notice it feels different, or has moved.

  • New thoughts and insights. During and after your session, clearer or deeper thoughts and feelings can arrive. Notice what surfaces, and give yourself space alone with it. Sometimes these moments bring real clarity about yourself or something you have been sitting with.

  • Memories resurfacing. Breath can bring you into contact with things held below the surface, including memories that have been tucked away for a long time. These can become clearer as the session goes on and in the days afterwards. If this happens for you, go at your own pace, and lean on support if you want it. You are not meant to do this alone.

  • Physical aches. Sometimes the release is more physical than emotional, and your body moves or spasms as it lets energy go. You might feel achy or tender for a few days afterwards while your body settles. Warmth can help, so reach for a hot water bottle, or a warm shower or bath if that feels good to you.

A note for LGBTQIA+ and neurodivergent friends

This space is yours, fully. A few things worth naming:

Your relationship with your body is your own, and it may be complicated, joyful, painful, or all of these at once.

If focusing on the body brings up discomfort or dysphoria, do not push through it. Comfort might look like staying clothed and cosy rather than taking a bath, or grounding through sound or touch rather than through your reflection. Follow what feels safe for you.

If you experience your body's signals very intensely, or find them hard to read at all, both are completely okay. There is no correct amount to feel. Sensations that seem big are not a sign anything has gone wrong.

Stimming, rocking, moving, making noise, or needing total stillness and quiet afterwards are all valid ways of regulating. As if dancing with headphones whilst listening to EDM. You do not need to mask any of that here or in the hours that follow. If you are wiped out from a session, some of that may be the ordinary cost of unmasking, and rest is a fair response to it.

If the tender, open state afterwards feels like a lot, structure can help. A predictable evening routine, a safe foods meal, a familiar activity, low light, fewer decisions. Aim where possible to make things simpler for yourself here.

And if any material came up that touches your sense of who you are or how you have been treated for being yourself, please know you deserve support with it. You are witnessed and welcome exactly as you are.

Looking after yourself

These are gentle invitations, not instructions. Take what serves you and leave the rest.

  • Nourish yourself.
    Something warm and grounding to eat can help you feel settled. Drink water through the day too.

  • Come back to the ground.
    Time in nature, gentle movement, or simply feeling your feet on the floor can help you feel more here. If barefoot on grass is your thing, lovely. If it is not, a hand on your own chest works just as well.

  • Reflect, if it helps.
    Writing down what came up can support integration. If words are not your medium, voice notes, drawing, or just sitting with it are equally valid.

  • Go gently.
    This work can ask a lot of you. Let there be space around the rest of your day.

  • Reach out.
    If feelings surface, talking to someone you trust, whether that is a friend, chosen family, or your facilitator, can make a real difference.

  • Rest.
    An early night, if you can. Rest is where a lot of the integration quietly happens.

  • Warmth and comfort.
    A warm bath, perhaps with something calming like lavender or chamomile, can soothe your nervous system. Cosy clothes, a familiar blanket or a weighted one work just as well.

  • Be on your own side.
    If something hard came up, remind yourself that healing moves at its own pace, and that there is nothing wrong with you. You are exactly where you need to be.

Journal Prompts

If it calls to you, journaling can be a great place to begin gentle self-enquiry. However you answer is right. Words, a drawing, a voice note, or simply sitting with a question are all great. Pick whichever serve you, and forget the rest.

A place to begin

  • What is one message that came through for you?

  • What is a feeling from the session that has stayed with you?

  • Write, or draw, whatever you remember of the experience. A picture is just as welcome as words.

  • Do you notice anything different in yourself compared to before?

Giving the feeling a shape

  • If the feeling had a colour, what would it be? Does it stay one colour, or shift?

  • If you drew the feeling as a shape, would it be sharp or soft, still or moving, heavy or light?

  • Where does it sit in or around your body, and does it have edges, or does it blur out?

Listening to what it holds

  • If this feeling could speak, what might it be trying to tell you?

  • What might this feeling be looking after, or keeping safe?

  • What might it need from you right now, and what would it be like to offer a little of that?

If you need support

If feelings surface, talking to someone you trust, whether a friend, chosen family, or your facilitator, can make a real difference. You do not have to hold it on your own.